finding myself in others

The Facilitator

In paying attention to people I get to discover myself further. my experience so far has not been of realising how to be out of the blue, as much as it has been about gradually discovering aspects of myself in others.

I find it hard to judge and easy to relate. Universal rights and wrongs don’t matter to me as much as what allows one to sleep well at night.

Because I empathise, it is particularly important for me to continually check if my values are my own, or if they are subconsciously catering to the beliefs of those who influence me.

People around me, specially those I am drawn to, tend to hold big, relevant lessons. I try to embody what I learn from them and let that attract an ever more relevant crowd to support me finding my most genuine self.

What I notice seems to be self revealing. There is always meaning to be found where I am drawn to and I try to follow it down many rabbit holes.